TY - BOOK AU - Bott,David AU - Howard,Pam TI - The therapeutic encounter: a cross-modality approach SN - 9780857022325 (hbk.) AV - RC481.B68 2012 U1 - 616.8914 23 PY - 2012/// CY - London, Thousand Oaks, Calif. PB - SAGE KW - Client-centered psychotherapy KW - Counselor and client KW - Psychoanalytic Therapy KW - Professional-Patient Relations KW - Psychoanalytic Theory N1 - Includes bibliographical references (p. [101]-107) and index; Theorising process : contemporary perspectives -- Refusal to join in: Dilemma: How can I take part if I can't make a mistake? -- Battle for control: Dilemma: How can I find love when I can't show that I'm vulnerable -- Engaging with the emotionally unavailable: Dilemma: How can I get close and still be myself? -- Need to be loved: Dilemma: How can I keep everyone happy and still get my own needs met? -- Inability to relate: Dilemma: How can I get love and still be self-sufficient? -- Encountering oppositionality: Dilemma: How can I get my way when I can't say what I want? -- Therapeutic encounter: a safe emergency ER -